As a child I grew up watching Disney movies and admiring the pretty princesses. I thought they were beautiful, and they always managed to end up with their prince. In class we talked about how young girls are potentially learning the idea that a man is supposed to save you and sweep you off your feet, and be your everything from these movies. Thinking back, I cannot say that this is true, but I also cannot confidently say the movies did not influence that idea.
Another issue we touched on was whether or not parents were explaining the "true message" of the stories to their children. I do not recall my mother really ever talking to me about the moral dilemmas the princesses faced. I also do not believe I attempted to model my behavior after any of the princesses. When I think back to the time frame of my life when Disney movies were all I watched, I recall the fun and entertainment-not the life lessons.
As an adult watching these movies it is shocking to see the way the princesses are portrayed and the way they interact with the men and princes. I definitely see how one could worry about how it would effect vulnerable young children. However, I watched these movies growing up, without explanation, and I turned out fine. I don't think a man is going to ride up on his white horse and save me, or if I kiss a frog that he will turn into my prince charming.
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